We have all struggled with some type of judgement. Gossip, the colour of someone’s skin or hair, tattoos, or how they are dressed,... and we instantly think we know what kind of person they are.
It’s like reading a book without ever opening the cover and turning a page; how can we determine if we really know what’s inside?
There is a power to the words we think and speak. Just a simple comment made to a person or through gossip can be very hurtful – Power of the words we speak. Choosing not to help someone or leaving them out because they are different – Power of the words we think. Even though you didn’t say a word and just walked on by, they felt the judgement.
Does anyone remember these two sayings growing up: “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me”. I am sure it was meant to be helpful, but words really can hurt a person. How about this second one, “If you don’t have anything nice to say, then don’t say anything at all”, if taught before the first one - we wouldn't have needed the first one.
In some countries students are taught the power of words and the impact they can have not only in the lives of other, but also in our lives as well. They are taught to speak only when they have something constructive to say. They even have rules for speaking. The power of the words we think and speak are so powerful. Knowing the danger of idle talk, they created a set of rules to determine whether they should speak or not speak.
“Is it true?” “Is it kind?” “Is it needful?”
“Even if it is True, if it is Not Kind, then surely it is Not Needful!”
This is a set of rules that we must all try to develop in our every day lives, whether at work, at play, or at home. Paying attention to our thoughts and the words we speak can help to create a happier, healthier, more prosperous life for everyone - including ourselves.
Isaiah warns us that our woes can often be connected to our unkind judgements. Isaiah 10:1 “Woe unto them that decree unrighteous decrees.” By eliminating negativity and judgement, we can start to relieve ourselves of our “woes” – grief, sadness, lack, misfortune, despair, … and start creating a happier, healthier, prosperous life.
Remember your thoughts and words have the power to create your world. What you think and speak about is what you bring about. Just imagine if we all thought before we spoke...the world would be a kinder place. What are you thinking right now? Your thoughts and words can be used to harm or to empower; what will you use them for?
You must be the change You want to see!!
With Gratitude,
Minister Leona Jo
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